Best Man Speech Ideas For the Groom's Father

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When The Groom's Father Is The Best Man And Has To Give A Best Man Speech

Best Man Speech by father of the GroomMaking and presenting a best man speech can be a daunting task. And if the best man happens to be the groom's father it tends to becomes a bit more difficult. Or is it? As a matured person and having seen the groom grow up in front of his eyes, the groom's father has his avantages too.

Being the best man of the groom during a wedding is a great honor, and comes with a lot of responsibilities during both the wedding ceremony and the reception party. Your best man speech and best man toast can have a deep and lasting impact on friends and family of the bride and groom for the rest of the evening, and for a much greater time afterwards. Therefore, it is important to take some time and prepare yourself to give the best speech you can create, and to really dazzle the audience with a grand performance. The following are some guidelines for creating a speech that is heartfelt, that avoids the pitfalls that can often strike speeches on such occasions, and that gives you a flawless delivery.

There are many ways to give a warm, sentimental speech for the groom that clearly shows your support of the marriage. One way is to tailor your speech to the character of the groom: if he's a bit of a prankster, then crack a few jokes to loosen everyone up and lighten the mood (but try not to go overboard and give a full-on roast); if he's serious, then stick to complimentary remarks about the bride and groom, and throw in a joke or two to round out the speech's content. This advice applies to the best man toasts as well: try to mirror the groom's personality, if you are able. Taking the effort to adjust your speech and toast to the groom's tastes is a simple way to show everyone that you care about this event, and want the couple to do well.

Another point to consider in regard to tweaking best man speeches is that it is possible that you'll have to give two different speeches: one for the rehearsal dinner, and one for the wedding reception. It is a good idea to keep in mind that the rehearsal dinner is causal, with mainly family and friends, whereas the wedding reception will be formal, with many guests in addition to the friends and families of the bride and groom. Necessarily, you might have to change certain particulars in your speech to reflect the change in audience. If you feel that you need two different drafts to reflect the change, then it would be wise to make the changes as needed.

As the groom's father and as best man, your speech will have a major impact on the whole mood of the wedding ceremony. So among other things, ensure that it is within the acceptable time limits, preferably 5 to 10 minutes. Best man speeches and best man toasts can be at their worst when they are too short, as it implies that the best man doesn't care all of that much about the bride and groom's big day. On the other hand, if you talk for too long, you may inadvertently kill the ceremony. Speech length involves balance, and the preferred amount of time for a speech is between 5 and 10 minutes.

Delivering an opening remark in a speech can be a very challenging aspect of the best man's duties and responsibilities. In fact, the very first few sentences in your speech could bring the whole event to a grinding halt, with long-lasting repercussions for you and some of your relationships with your friends and family. A safe and effective way to give a best man speech is to give a 'sandwich technique': start with simple, tasteful, and respectful comments about the groom, and then slowly, incrementally move towards more humorous comments, and then end the speech with polite comments to tie everything up.

Giving the best man speech and best man toasts are a big deal, but that doesn't translate into you trying to be someone you're not, in an ill-conceived attempt to project someone you're not to make your speech more convincing. The best thing to do is to be yourself, even if you are nervous, since most audience members know that speaking is a difficult task, and will generally cut you some slack. On the positive side, once you've completed your opening remarks, the rest of the speech becomes much easier, and it becomes relatively easy to let your personal flavor and mannerisms out and even entertain the audience.

If you do tell stories during your best man speech, act as sort of a 'hype man' for your son, showing examples of his virtues and practical qualities. Discuss his loyalty to his friends, generous assistance of people in need, performing extraordinary feats that ensured his economic security, any and all sorts of ways to build your son's image up in the eyes of many guests, since the majority of them probably do not know who he is yet. Also discuss the good qualities in the bride, since this is show why they are such a good match for each other.

The best man toast is the most important part of the speech, and is often the dramatic climax of the speech. In general, congratulate the bride and groom on tying the knot, wish for their continued wealth and success, and raise your glass and prompt everyone else to do the same. Toast to the continued happiness and well-being of the couple, and remark on how proud you are of your son. This is the time to say anything warm and uplifting you didn't mention in the other parts of your speech, so if you have anything that might make the toast more heartfelt, be sure to use it.

In conclusion, the best man speech and the best man toast are complicated and daunting, but can complete a wedding ceremony if the necessary effort and dedication are brought to it, just like any other activity. Proper preparation and execution will make the speech a glowing highlight of the evening, and a fond memory for the bride and groom. Hopefully, these guidelines will help you when it comes time to create your best man speech.

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